Come Back to Me!
These were the words I spoke to my husband as he was being wheeled into OR to have triple by-pass surgery on his heart.
My dear husband it seems you’ve had a lifetime of physical dis-ease. From a babe to a teenager, an adult and now in your golden years.
The medical professional healed your heart physically, we will work together to heal it emotionally.
Recovery felt like an uphill battle. Infections threatened his healing, treatments carried risks, and anemia required two blood transfusions. Hope began to fade. My husband, Herve, felt defeated. He doubted whether he would ever fully recover.
As an Emotional Energy Healer, I could sense the emotions trapped in his body. When I listened, I heard the weight of exhaustion, the feeling of being beaten down. When I shared this with him, he said, "That's it!"—finally feeling seen and understood.
He has been waiting for medical care to heal him. I told him, “You need to find the strength inside and the determination to recover.” The doctors had done their part. Now, the journey to healing was his to take. It required a shift in mindset, better choices, and the will to move forward.
Over six months, he embraced a new lifestyle-changing his habits, finding inner resilience, and making the conscious decision to thrive.
Together, we created space where we could be vulnerable, speak our truths, and heal not just body but also our hearts. We chose to leave behind the weight of the past and step into a future of whole health, body, mind and spirit. To begin a new way of being with each other. Where there is respect, openness and a place of true peace.
Making the rest of our lives together filled with fun, aha moments and wonder. We take each moment as it comes – finding gratitude when he feels good and allowing space for rest when needed. Reflecting on what’s needed and what we can or cannot do.
We’ve come to realize that it’s a matter of time…Where patience becomes our ally and impatience is our enemy.
For healing happens in stages and over time. There are some stalls, stops and leaps forward. The most important part, Herve is now on a new path-embracing healthy eating, movement, self-forgiveness, self-love and emotional awareness.
I am so grateful to be on this path with him. Through his healing, I have learned so much…
From my heart to yours,
Maureen